Own it....be you!!!
Just try it out...seriously, find what makes you happy and just embrace it. It is second life and it is our escape. So if you want to be a dog, a princess, a fairy, a monster, a neko, a married person, a father, a baby, a wizard, a vampire, a designer or even a lil moo cow then you should do it. Don't be embarrassed or ashamed of what it is that makes you the wonderfully unique person that you are.
I have always struggled in SL...finding my place, searching for my lil slice of happiness for the absolute longest time after coming in. Afraid to wear this or that....avoiding wearing a tail or any crazy looking skin. I've feared wearing a binky in public or embracing my babygirl side at times. Afraid to be short....heck I've even been afraid to thicken my shape up. After being in SL for so long, one would think that you wouldn't care after a certain point. I've been afraid of the backlash, the criticism, the comments but in the past few years that fear has dropped off.
I can honestly say that more and more, there is a fierce attitude of just not caring what anyone else thinks. I have rocked the horns and the crazy tails. I've been a kitty, a bunny, and the cutest lil babygirl. I've loved every minute of having my binky in my mouth where ever I am. I have even found comfort in letting my moo spots show proudly. It is who I am....and there is nothing to be ashamed of.
But there is a flip side to this....if you wanna be you...then you gotta be accepting of others. Don't rip someone apart or laugh at who they are. In this world, we need more people lifting each other and more acceptance. So if someone is popping around a sim looking like a moo cow....let'm. If someone is brave enough to be themselves, find your own braveness to let them. The world could be a crazy amazing place if this happened more often than it did. So be you and let them be them....and don't forget to just embrace the magnificent wonderful beautiful person that is you.
I typically will put exactly what I'm wearing and give credit to the designers that made the amazing stuff that I am wearing. I opted not to on this blog for personal reasons; however, if you are wondering what something is...feel free to message me in world.
Also...check out the Silvershot Ranch . It is an incredible country/farm sim that I came across looking for a picture spot.
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